Sunday, December 27, 2009

I Was in a Hit and Run!!

So, I pretty much knew I was right about what I was going to get for Christmas... I got a Wii :) I absolutely love it!!!
But on Christmas morning I made Chris get up with me at 6AM to open our presents from one another... (he did not appreciate it at all!! He's so not a morning person. Granted, neither am I but I absolutely LOVE Christmas and was super excited so I set my alarm so I'd make myself get up :)

After we opened our presents he went back to bed and I played with my Wii for about an hour... then I decided I was pretty sleepy as well. I got to the bedroom and he had fallen asleep on my side of the bed. So, I just got in bed on his side thinking I'd just sleep for about an hour and then we'd be going to his moms... Well, about 30 minutes after I came to bed I all of a sudden got hit right in the face with something and it hurt sooooo bad!! Come to find out, it was a diecast Nissan that he had on shelf above his bed... it fell quite a long fall and then hit me right in the freaking nose! It even made me bleed... I was so mad because if he had just got to back to sleep on his side of the bed, it would have been him that got hit in the head... but nooo, he had to take my side.. err...
so then the entire Christmas day when we went to his moms, his aunt and uncles, and my grandma and grandpas he was making jokes about how I was involved in a "hit and run"... so not cool...

But anyways, so we went to his mom's for Christmas morning... I had told her about a month ago that my mom spent the same amount on both me and Chris (I mean, we've been dating for a year now, he's pretty much family)... so we were opening presents at his moms house and this is what i opened... a gray puffy vest, a pair of gray camoflouge pajama pants, a pair of pink fleece mickey mouse pajama pants, and a stocking with a pair of socks in it... that was it.. first of all, i hate puffy vests i mean, whats the freaking point of them?? If i'm cold enough to wear something puffy, i'm going to wear my damn coat or a jacket.. i'm going to want my arms covered. Second of all, camo?? seriously?! I'm a chick, not a dude! Granted, if it was pink camo, I would have loved it... Thirdly, I really do not like fleece pajamas... they get staticky and stick to everything and are just simply annoying... the socks are cute, but really... and Fourthly, (labeled to me and Chris) a magnet that says "i love my mutt"... I dont have a mutt, i have a pure bred dachshund and she is far from a mutt. It offends me that she must insist on calling my dog a mutt.. and she could have at least given us a gift card to go get dinner together or something...
and finally (the last reason why I don't fully appreciate my Christmas presents from her)... here's what she bought Chris... the DVD Paul Blart: Mall Cop and Madea Goes to Jail, a stud finder, a tripod flashlight, drill bits, camo pajama pants, some food storage containers, a corded drill, and some other random shit that I cant remember now...
So, I know for a fact that the 2 pairs of pants she bought me cost about $9 a piece, the vest was $15, and the socks were prolly $2... so she spent what?... $35 on me?? and I know the DVDs she got for him couldnt have been cheaper than $10 a piece... I really didnt expect her to spend exactly the same amount on both of us but I really didnt think there would be such a huge difference in the two... I mean, I opened my stuff and then I just sat there waiting for him to finish opening his... It really hurt my feelings...
I guess it prolly wouldnt have bothered me except for the fact that I know she doesnt really like me and hasnt really accepted me... Like, Chris and I know we're going to get married and everything but she doesnt seem to get that... I mean, is that how it's gonna be when we get married?? she'll always spend substantially more on him than on me??
and what  made it more apparent that it was just something with her is the fact that we went to his dad's family's house and his dad and stepmom spent about the same on each of us... and i really liked what they got for me... they didnt just buy me random shit that they found on sale like I know his mom did... i mean, even my grandparents spent the same amount on him as on me...
so, that is my rant for today... she hurt my feelings because she still doesnt accept me and still doesnt really consider me part of the family... it really hurt my feelings to the point that i wanted to cry... but i didnt really have a way to explain to Chris how i felt b/c I knew he wouldnt understand it...
but anyways, more later...

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